Sunday, May 9, 2010

A Typical Playgroup before the Internet

I am dependent on the the Internet. I shop there, read there, socialize there, heck you could say that I live there. Quite frankly, the Internet saved my life from isolation through playgroups. Ironic, no? For those of you who are stay at home moms suffering from that same isolation but do not own a computer; all hope is not lost. Just because you don not have a computer does not mean you cannot part take in playgroups, and  I am going to tell you how.

The first playgroups before technology where preschools and church groups. Preschools developed for children under the age five, and typically met for a few hours in the mornings on a weekday. Parents did not normally attend, as staff supervise. Church groups are really a core family, and it is only natural for parents to gather on a weekly or monthly basis to celebrate childhood, and parenthood alike.

Today, you can find playgroups at libraries, rec centers, churches, even some hospitals. There are tons of them online. It might take a bit of searching, but they are out there. As a matter of fact, some are national! I can't give you exact details of all of them, but here are the largest most popular ones that I know-

MOPS- Mothers of Preschoolers is a christian-based mothers group, usually meets once a month but can meet in other patterns if the steering team chooses to do so. Usually, child care is provided,  the mothers share a breakfast, listen to a speaker and/or do a craft. MOPS is so popular and large that most divide into smaller discussion groups so it is easier to get to know your fellow members. MOPS does have a yearly fee, and you can find out more about them by visiting their website.

MOMS club- Moms offering Moms Support is another organization that is nation-wide. Activities vary group to group, and also have an annual fee. MOMS club is not affiliated with any religious backgrounds, however many members have strong religious beliefs.

Moms of Multiples- Moms of Multiples is pretty obvious. They're purpose is to support mothers who have twins, triplets, etc. Since I am not a mother of multiples myself (Although sometimes I feel like my oldest is the same age are her younger siblings depending on the day!), I cannot tell you much about this organization, but it's definitely popular with parents, because it was the first group I had ever heard of.

All of the these group started with little Internet involvement. Look what they have accomplished! So what if there are no chapters in your area? Where else do you look?

Libraries- most libraries have story times, which attract mothers and mall children. Same with bookstore. Start attending these and just ask the moms there if they would like to come to a playgroup. Some libraries even have playgroups already.

Hospitals- If you are a breastfeeding mom, there are usually breastfeeding support groups. voila.-- an other playgroup in the making.

Put out a want ad.. in community newsletters, the newspaper, where ever!

Check with local churches. Some may not even be affiliated with the church.

I have to say, from my experience the easiest way is the Internet, but I realize that for some, it is just not a possibility. There are options, you just have to get creative.

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